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18Jan

Beginnings...

Growing up in our house, books reigned supreme.  My mother used to say the one thing she couldn’t stand to throw out, was a book.  Other women might have an old pair of jeans from high school, stuffed in the back of the closet hoping someday to fit back into them.  Momma had her favorite book, the cover tattered and held together with scotch tape, sitting on her night table.  To this day, she re-reads that book at least once a year.  It is Betty Smith’s, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn.

It wasn’t unusual for books to worm their way into the very décor of our home.  A pile of old encyclopedias served as an end table.  The bookshelves, of course were stuffed with them, and there were bookshelves in every room of the house.  Momma once rescued an entire elementary school library from incineration.  She had read about the school being demolished to make way for a strip mall. 

Momma felt something was amiss in all this destruction and rode over to the site to see for herself just what was going on.  When she arrived and saw boxes and crates full of books being hauled out of the school, she took action.

“Whats in those boxes?” she asked one of the foreman.

“We have to empty the building before we can knock it down.  Those boxes are full of books from the library.”

“I see.  So the books going to another school then?”

“No Ma’am.  They’re old books and not worth much.  I believe they are actually to be burned.”

“BURNED?”

“Yes, ma’am.”

This, of course, was murder in Momma’s eyes.  Somehow she managed to convince that foreman to have his crew load the boxes into the back of her station wagon.  She had to make ten trips to get them all home, but she did it.  Momma saved an entire library that day.  That’s just who she was.

Later, those old library books would be my entrance into the world of reading.  The cover on one of those old books had nearly disintegrated and couldn’t be put back together again.  Undaunted, Momma used it to paper the bathroom under the stairs on the first floor.  It was a primary reader and I can remember crouching with her between the commode and the old pedestal sink, tracing the letters, my pudgy fingers guided by her elegant ones.  I learned to read on a bathroom wall.

Daddy, while not as much of a book lover as Momma, saw the value in our learning to read and humored the piles of books in every conceivable corner.  Daddy had his own world of escape.  It was a room on the back of our detached garage.  We called it, “The Plunder Room.”  Most everyone else would’ve called it a workshop.  I’m not sure why it was given that title, so strange. 

Daddy created there.  With bits of old orange crates and tin cans salvaged from dinner, he would make toys and sometimes wagons.  These creations appeared crude, but were actually elegant in that they were fitted together perfectly.  Many a neighborhood child had one of Daddy’s toys as part of a birthday present.  Their grandchildren still play with them today.

On Sunday mornings, the papers would arrive.  Momma shunned TV and didn’t watch the news, so she caught up on the week’s happenings by reading several different papers on Sunday afternoons.  Momma would spread the papers out all over the living room floor after church and read all afternoon.  She actually didn’t care much for the hard news.  She liked the human interest stories the best.  So after a quick scan of the headlines on the front page, she would lose herself in the triumphs and tragedies of her fellow humans. 

After several hours, Momma would wheedle Daddy into working a crossword puzzle with her.  Momma’s other passion was crosswords.  She  could work the New York Times, Sunday crossword in ink in 45 minutes.  “It’s not because I’m smart,” she would say, “It’s because I read so much.”

Daddy would humor her for a little while as they snuggled on the couch.  Eventually, they would go to their bedroom for a nap.  Of course, I now know that they weren’t napping, but when I was eight years old it all seemed plausible enough. 

Momma never cooked dinner on Sunday nights, not even if we had company.  “Fend for yourselves,” she would say as soon as we were old enough.  There were always plenty of leftovers and once I was old enough to hold down a job we could order out. 

I, of all my siblings, inherited Momma’s love of books to its greatest degree.  Many a night would find me burrowed beneath my sheets, making tunnels like that kid in The Velveteen Rabbit, only a book was my companion instead of bunny.  I didn’t have to sneak to stay up reading like some kids.  Momma didn’t care.  I just liked the solitude I found under the sheets, with my flashlight, the sound of pages turning, was, I was certain, the same sound the angel’s wings made. 




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Reader Comments (9)

Laura, please keep writing ! I have to know what happens next..........
01-18-2005 | Unregistered CommenterElizabeth
Love this story! Don't leave us hanging . . .
01-18-2005 | Unregistered CommenterLola
...well...I guess I better figure out what happens next! LOL! I have a vague idea...need to work on it.
01-18-2005 | Unregistered CommenterLaura
Whaaadayamean..ya gotta work on the end?!

This is a good story. I want to hear more about Momma. She sounds like a woman after my own heart. I never made Sunday dinner. It was my one day off of "work" as a SAHM. I loved reading the human interest stories and I can't pass a used bookstore without going in to see if there are any treasures there.

I totally love the idea of wallpapering the bathroom with an old book. I may have to do that!
01-18-2005 | Unregistered Commenterphilippa
Any book-loving kindred spirit will enjoy your story. I grew up in a house with a library: a whole huge room with wall-to-wall, floor-to-ceiling books. Both of my parents were book lovers and collectors and that sort of thing just seems to get passed on. Even though I love to own books, however, I love libraries also. I've bought many books for my kids but I've always made a point of taking them to the library to borrow books too.

Do you remember how stories affected you as a child/youth? When I was 9 I read the Narnia series by CS Lewis. I was sure that if I somehow found the right closet or wardrobe I too would be able to enter Narnia. I remember another time spinning around and around over the top of a man-hole cover at the end of our street. Perhaps by some magic this would transport me to that fabled place. I believed! If only we could hold on to more of this sense of the unseen world, the spiritual world as adults.

And staying up until all hours to read. Boy, you knew you'd pay dearly the next morning when the alarm went off for school. But the story was compelling and real and you knew you wouldn't be able to sleep anyway because your mind had been taken captive. You had to at least get to a place of resolution for the immediate crisis in the story.I never did fall asleep while reading.

So nowadays, although I rarely stay up late reading, it is still one of my all-time favorite things to do. I always have a book with me or around me. The floor and night-stand on my side of the bed is piled high with various books that I am reading or studying.

I still read to my youngest son. He's 11 and our favorite time of day is just before bedtime when we cuddle up and read.

Long live stories and myth and fable! Long live the printed word!

01-19-2005 | Unregistered Commenterpup
Very nice!

01-19-2005 | Unregistered Commenteralana
You may be interested to know how our business was called "The Book House". In 1963 my wife, who was a devoted fan of W.R. Riley's "The Sixpenny Man" (a must for any booklover) started selling books from the front wall of our garden in Yorkshire, England. In a few years we had grown to a market stall and warehouse in Loughborough, Leicestershire. It was called, logically enough, The Loughborough Bookstall. Then came the chance to buy a corner shop with living accomodation, near the library, in that town. We moved our bookshop there, but what to call it? Our younger daughter had no doubts. "It's a house full of books, so it should be the Book House". And so it was, and two moves later we are back north in the old county of Westmorland and gradually retiring, while our other daughter takes over the running of the shop. If you are ever in the area, visit us!
03-31-2005 | Unregistered CommenterChris
If you are ever in the area, visit us!

Small World! We've got some friends in that part of the world we'd like to meet face-to-face, so perhaps we should take a trip!
03-31-2005 | Registered CommenterJim N.
Wow, Chris. Thank you for telling me that story. I hope to get over there some day!
04-1-2005 | Unregistered CommenterLaura

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